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How to contact your Dad for Benjamin & Vanessa Syphrett

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Benjamin Syphrett and Vanessa Syphrett. I really enjoyed hearing from Benjamin a couple years back, and I want you both to know their are no valid legal restraints preventing you from speaking with or contacting me any time you want.

The civil restraints that were issued in New Jersey were issued without notice by the judge and as such are legally void of effect. Additionally such civil restraints are limited to the state of New Jersey, and are not in effect, nor do they inhibit in any way current or future communication between Derek Syphrett and his children, bc civil restraints are limited to the state in which they are issued (when they are valid orders).

If Benjamin or Vanessa wish to contact me they can by simply calling 609-638-6901 or emailing me at dsyphrett@gmail.com.

I hope you are both doing well and I want you to know I miss you tremendously. However due to the cost of continuing to attempt to restore parenting time via NJ courts, and the past history of being unable to observe meaningful good-will, honesty, or valid attempts to co-parent with my counterpart, I do not expect to continue wasting time with corrupt lawyers and judges to re-establish parenting time.

Notably it remains my view that the prior trial proceedings were so incredibly mishandled that the prior proceedings are in fact a mis-trial for a multitude of technical legal reasons.

I look forward to hearing from you in the near future.

Letter #2 to Benjamin & Vanessa

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Dear Benjamin and Vanessa,

Your father is very proud of you both. If he had conversations with either of you I know he is cherishing those conversations now and wondering how you are doing.

Your father gets monthly updates and pictures of you every month from you mother, if there is something important you want your father to know make sure to let your mother know to include it in her updates as she is court ordered to keep your father up to date with your progress and any concerns and accomplishments every month.

I know he is very proud of the solid minds and righteous attitude that you have and he is very proud of your accomplishments.

But more than anything he misses you and loves you more than words can say and wishes he could be talking to you every day – nothing would mean more to him.

Your Dad loves you more and more every day and someday you will know and feel that to be true.

Be the best people you can be and stay true to who you are.

Loving you Always,

Your Father.

Letter to Benjamin Syphrett & Vanessa Syphrett from Their Father Derek Syphrett

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Letter to Benjamin Syphrett & Vanessa Syphrett
Posted on behalf of Derek Syphrett by a this third party:

(UPDATE: These Letters resulted in Derek’s Son reaching out to re-unite with his father, only to have Meg Wallace punish the son and bar contact for 4 years, until the son again reached out and finally got the relationship with his father that he always deserved)

Dearest Benjamin & Vanessa Syphrett

I write this letter in hopes that you will find it to be warming to your hearts and so that you will have no concerns about how much you father loves you.

I love you more than anything else in the world and I miss you both terribly. There is not a single day that I don’t think about both of you and how lucky I am to have such amazingly wonderful children. You are both truly two of the nicest children than I have ever met in my life and I am overwhelmed with pride knowing that you are both my beloved children.

Please know that I have not abandoned you but instead I am simply unable to reconcile with your mother or her family. I have tried and I would be willing to try again, however, my efforts to resume normal communications with your mother and her family have not been met by any meaningful attempt to restore our relationship. For that I am truly disappointed and very sorry for your loss of a relationship with your father.

I am sure that your mother loves you as best she can, but please know that no one will ever love you or long for you as much as I do.

I remember fondly reading you both good night stories before bed and walks in the park and trips to playgrounds and the beach. Those were some of the absolute best days of my life.

I do receive updates monthly from your mother about your progress in school and with your sports and afterschoolk programs. It is difficult for me to receive those updates without crying, but I read each and every one to maintain as much of a connection to you as I can.

Additionally please know that your grandmother Tamora J. Syphrett loved you both dearly and was devastated that she was not able to maintain a relationship with you. She would buy birthday presents for you for every birthday, and she did send some to your home, eventually she just became concerned that her messages were not going to be delivered to you and she stopped sending the presents she bought for you. You were both the apples of her eye and Vanessa you look very much like your grandmother, who grew up to be one of the most beautiful and nicest people I have ever known.

So when you go to sleep at night please to do not ever wonder or worry that your father doesn’t love or care about you. I would do anything to see each of you and hug you for as long as I could, because you are the best things that ever happened to me and I miss you beyond words.

Love Your Dad,

Derek C. Syphrett

609-638-6901